There are a number of ways of being involved in a link exchange program. The simplest way to go about it is to contact a website owner and administrators then ask for a manual exchange of links. Another way to go about it, or at least learn more about it, would be to visit a web forum or discussion board specifically catering to link exchange programs. But both ways are time consuming in fact, it might take you more than a year to build a good link network if you only stick to these two methods.
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